Step 2 - FORGIVENESS

I wrote about Hope the last time, one thing we need to do more this year is to forgive ourselves. There are many things we've said and done, things we regret doing and things we still plan to do.

We might have achieved some or none, might have broken a few rules we swore to adhere to, yet, we survived the year and we are here, now, reading, eating, laughing, joking and breathing. We should learn to forgive ourselves and stop punishing ourselves, some factors might have stopped us from achieving our set goal, some people might have, it might even be us. We need to intentionally remove guilt whilst pursuing our respective goals.

Nigeria is punishment enough, you provide your light, your water, your food, your internet and even sometimes your own job, that should be punishment enough!

As we try to navigate the new year's uncertainties, let's learn to accept that some things are out of our control, there's just nothing we can do about it.

In the words of a very wise man, "problem no dey finish". Lest I forget, my theme last year was, "collect wetin belong to Cesar which later morphed into if you no fit put body, no try am", for this year I'm going with, "cutting my coat oversize"

See you some other time.